The romantic relationships are not the only ones that fill your life with love and joyfulness. When you’re concentrating too much on looking for the romance and the potential love of your life, you spend way too much energy and valuable time in the people who do not exist. Instead of doing so, you can invest energy and concern in your family, friendships, and other important relationships. By that, you see the incredible value of those people. Am I cold-hearted? I don’t think so. Maybe a little bit, but that doesn’t change the fact that we use the word LOVE like it is any other word in our vocabulary. Unfortunately, we lose sight of what is really important because we think that passionately loving someone is the only reason to be in a romantic relationship. There are the values which are more critical than only love! For example, trust is a big factor in a relationship, as
Love is a fantastic feeling, but it is not everything in your life. There are so many other elements to be passionate about — travel, music, sport, photography, literature, even work. You choose what is best for you. When you are being in love with your life, as opposed to spending all your time and pall your energy into a relationship, you make time for new ideas that light a fire within you. Those new things can enormously inspire and fuel you. Every day your life becomes more and more satisfying and complete as you concentrate on your well-being rather than romance.
When you are in love with life, you want to spend every minute efficiently. You are keen to travel to other countries, taste new adventures, gather new experiences, explore everything the way you want, and live how you want. Trust me, this is not bad. Being in love with life is taking advantage of what you have and following the things you truly want. You are not the follower, you are the creator! Society has no influence on how you are feeling, you are not following the crowd. That all means you are doing, going, and truly living your life as an individual.
Being in love with life means choosing what you desire, what you appreciate, and what you need. The best thing you can do for yourself is to focus on your challenges and how you will pursue them. It also means finding out what you really want out of romantic relationships, out of your existence, and building an excellent plan for your future. Your personal interpretations of life will begin to change. This significant change in mental state will also alter your sensations and increase your emotional intelligence, which is a substantial factor in achieving overall success. You can catch yourself where your thoughts are leading you, and make necessary changes. Becoming aware of your needs is an initial step in the creation of the life that you want. It will help you pinpoint what your passions are, and how your personality can reshape by that.
The moment you stop focusing on a romantic relationship, you take and make more time for other interests like your hobbies, career, finances, and your future. You learn to ground yourself rather than letting a relationship ground you, from now your priorities shift in a very healthy direction.
Being in love with life gives you the motivation not to waste your precious time. You won’t chase things that don’t improve you. You definitely stop living in an uninspiring reality. When you love and appreciate your life, you do things with passion, rather than playing a role in society. When you are in love with life everything you do, you do it with passion. You work with full passion, you dance with passion, you exercise with a total repertoire of sensations. Always remember your passion is the energy of your life, and that everything you do with love will make you feel satisfied and happy.
You want to be inspired by people, you are keen to grow, you want to experience more. Thus, you value the advice and guidance given to you from others, and you’re more willing to be supportive of people who may need you. Life is so much better when you involve the strengths and expertise of others. I’m sure that one of the reasons I’ve had success in my life is my willingness to seek out and take advice from wise people. I love getting advice from competent people. I believe that if someone has worked hard enough achieving success, and is willing to help, I would be silly not to listen to them. By listening to someone you also get to contribute to the joy of the other person.
You can be happy where you are but are you never really fully satisfied? Good for you! You seek to make your dreams happen, your goals a reality and your sense of purpose
All of a sudden, small things like the sunrise or smiling stranger next to mean a lot. These subtle things that you overlooked before now are the main focus, and an essential part of the wonderful life you’re living. My appreciation for those moments forced me to slow down, and made me realize I had no need to rush or stress. Those little things make you realize that there’s more in life than just getting through the day.
Being in love with life, you stop looking for a romantic partner to make you feel whole. You are simply complete because of the people around, the actions you are taking, and the memories you are continually forming. Your satisfaction and peace aren’t dependent upon potential other lovers.
Being in love with your life rather than a person, you value yourself and what you overcame in the past. Your purpose is more visible, and you see how stories in your life have shaped you and helped you became a better you. All those life lessons changed you. You are aware of how you’ve grown and are excited about the stories you will make in the future.
Thinking this way, I do not blindly believe that from now on life will be perfect. There will be much to struggle with, but because perspective has shifted from loving someone to loving your life, you’ve learned to appreciate your heart and mind. There is nothing wrong to put yourself first, it is actually very healthy. Now you know that you are the only one who can determine your happiness and joyfulness. Let me tell you something – when you are in love with your life, the true love will come when it’s meant to.
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